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The ONE Indicator He or She Is Attracted to You
I’ve spent my life studying relationships. I’m sort of an oddball man that always wanted to get married and have a one and only one. It hasn’t worked out that way. That’s okay. I’m still happy. I haven’t given up.
There are many in my place, both ladies and gents. No worries. At least you know you may be single, but you’re not alone. Over the recent years…and I’m talking about not so recent. I’ve come to accept being alone isn’t so bad, so my standards are high. My standards may be high, but that doesn’t mean I want to be alone.
There are countless articles giving endless dating advice. So much of it is written from of a perspective of ‘selling’ rather than giving great advice. Me, I’m a simple guy. I always go to facts and science. Oh yes, and that is out there galore. PUA’s (pick up artists) schilling crap galore.
Though what they say does have a lot of scientific background. They’ve mastered it. They’ve spent their lives perfecting it. That’s not me. I don’t want to devote my life to getting any lady. I want to devote my life to finding the right lady, and then devote my life to her.
It’s so hard. I’ve read books on body language and charisma. It’s brutal. It’s all factual and all does work. The defeating part is our brains can only process so many bits of information at once. As…
