3 Ways to Get a Man Addicted to You: His Eyes Will Only be on You

Andrew Foster
3 min readAug 15, 2022
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It’s no secret that men love a challenge. If you want to get a man addicted to you, you need to play hard to get, but only to the point, you’re both having fun. Staying positive is also vital — nobody wants to be around someone who is always negative. Life has enough negativity; try not to be a new source. And lastly, being a mystery will keep him intrigued. There’s a reason mystery novels and films sell so well.

In this blog post, we will discuss the 3 ways you can make a man addicted to you!

1. Playing Hard To Get

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Playing hard to get is a surefire way to get a man’s attention. Men love the chase, so if you’re not making it too easy for him, he’ll be more likely to pursue you. We are competitive by nature. We still have that primal nature built into us. We like the challenge of the hunt.

Of course, you don’t want to play games unless they’re fun — make sure you’re not always available and don’t always say yes. We like to know you have your own life and priorities. If you’re desperately waiting, it sends a signal, and it’s not a good one. A little challenge will keep him on his toes and wanting more of your time. It’s true:

Man chases a woman until she catches him.

2. Stay Perpetually Positive

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Staying positive is another crucial aspect of getting a man addicted to you. Nobody wants to be around someone always complaining or down in the dumps. He’s probably already had enough of that in his life. Whether it’s work or family, people already have enough grief. We need no more. Our relationships are to be a source of joy and fun. If you can stay positive — even when things are tough –he’ll be drawn to your optimistic attitude.

Plus, positivity is contagious, so you’ll make him feel good just by being around you. You’ll become that addictive drug from which he needs a hit.

3. The Mysterious Mystery

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Finally, being a mystery is an excellent way to keep a man’s attention. He’ll likely want to find out if he doesn’t know everything about you. Be careful not to share too much too soon — let him earn your trust first. And don’t be afraid to keep some things to yourself — it will only make him more curious about you.

We do want to get to know everything about you…eventually. Being a lover of books and films, I can put it like this; there are times when I’ve read or watched an excellent mystery, but in the end, I was disappointed. Not because the ending was terrible, but because the story was so great, I was on the edge of my seat, waiting to find out the next clue or crumb or information.

Here’s the goal. Be that exciting mystery, keeping on the edge of the seat waiting and wanting to get to know more and more. You do want to be honest and upfront, but let the details come out at a slow pace. You’re going to be that slow-burn mystery that keeps him tuned in for every episode of excitement.

If you follow these three tips, you’re sure to get a man addicted to you in no time! Thanks for reading, and good luck!



Andrew Foster

A student of love, relationships and self help who likes to write about and teach what I’ve learned along the way